Eponine
Active member
Actually I've seen a few guys like that on OKC, one of whom told me about his multiple relationships in message, others stating that in their profile.But it sounds weird to say that I'm disappointed that I can't find someone who's already involved with a bunch of people????
I guess part of the reason may be what you speculated in your OP: People already with multiple partners are less likely to actively look via online dating. After all, everyone's time and energy is limited...For me personally, even though one of my two relationships is super-long-distance, I don't feel the need to look for more (also, looking on purpose rarely works for me, but that's another story). I'm still open to more, but only if an emotional connection happened to fall into my lap (which was how I entered my non-primary LDR).
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