Hi everyone.
Oh gee, I´m afraid this could be a long thread, so please bear with me.
I`ve been in a great relationship with my boyfriend for 4½ years now - we own our own house, have no kids and love eachother to death.
He´s actually much more sexual than me and often I feel quite bad because I feel I can´t give him everything he deserves - sexually!! I got sick last year and have basically been bedbound every since with a lot of pain and exhaustion. This has made our relationship much stronger though and we are both 100% sure that we are meant to be together or life.
I don´t enjoy sex very much because I have a lot of pain and that makes me SO sad - on his and my behalf.
I have always had a lust for other men, when I have been in a relationship but never persued it as I`m against being unfaithfull. I still have the fantasies and now I`m thinking of introducing my boyfriend to the idea. Both because I think in this way his sexual needs would be met (and I would love that) and he could have sex with an other girl.
I would like to try to be with an other man but not in a relationship-kind of way. Just for the sex and, perhaps, the cuddle. And only with the same person one time - not several.
I truly love my boyfriend to death and couldn´t see myself with an other person. He feels the same way as me, he says!!
Do any of you have some tips how to bring up the subject?
I´ts driving me crazy and I think about "trying" an other man every day.
These past days, we´ve talked about sex and I told him that I would be ok with the fact that he would have sex with an other girl. It made him very happy I think but also took him by surprise.
Am I poly and what can I do before I go nuts?
Thank you so much!!
Oh gee, I´m afraid this could be a long thread, so please bear with me.
I`ve been in a great relationship with my boyfriend for 4½ years now - we own our own house, have no kids and love eachother to death.
He´s actually much more sexual than me and often I feel quite bad because I feel I can´t give him everything he deserves - sexually!! I got sick last year and have basically been bedbound every since with a lot of pain and exhaustion. This has made our relationship much stronger though and we are both 100% sure that we are meant to be together or life.
I don´t enjoy sex very much because I have a lot of pain and that makes me SO sad - on his and my behalf.
I have always had a lust for other men, when I have been in a relationship but never persued it as I`m against being unfaithfull. I still have the fantasies and now I`m thinking of introducing my boyfriend to the idea. Both because I think in this way his sexual needs would be met (and I would love that) and he could have sex with an other girl.
I would like to try to be with an other man but not in a relationship-kind of way. Just for the sex and, perhaps, the cuddle. And only with the same person one time - not several.
I truly love my boyfriend to death and couldn´t see myself with an other person. He feels the same way as me, he says!!
Do any of you have some tips how to bring up the subject?
I´ts driving me crazy and I think about "trying" an other man every day.
These past days, we´ve talked about sex and I told him that I would be ok with the fact that he would have sex with an other girl. It made him very happy I think but also took him by surprise.
Am I poly and what can I do before I go nuts?
Thank you so much!!