BlazenBurn
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We moved into the next door house, as a rental right now but Darling will be buying it. Now, it seems Everything I do is wrong. Ok, that's a bit of an overstatement but that is how I'm feeling. What I'm feeling is that I can't be me. Even though we split the houses, I feel like Darling's wife is keeping tabs on us. I have not been allowed to hang family pictures, etc in the new house. so as to not upset her. She seems quite content for me to be involved if I'm doing the family's laundry or cooking for everyone but then I need to leave her house.
Then there are money issues. When Darling proposed that I move here with him, he told me to not worry about support. It is significantly more expense to live here. So, I made financial decisions based upon that only to find out that his wife is keeping a tab of every cent he spends on me and my children. I am looking for work but there is no way I can support us right now. It makes me very uncomfortable to know that I every thing I purchase is being scrutinized. Darling and I are going on a trip soon and she has made it known to me that she is keeping an accounting of what we spend and that I should keep him in line.
I don't like being in the middle of this and have told him so but I don't see much changing. I feel trapped. I mean even at this time if I wanted to move out on my own, I would need his help and his wife would have veto power. So know I have to be a "good little girl" and keep my mouth shut. I mean what choice do I have?
Then there are money issues. When Darling proposed that I move here with him, he told me to not worry about support. It is significantly more expense to live here. So, I made financial decisions based upon that only to find out that his wife is keeping a tab of every cent he spends on me and my children. I am looking for work but there is no way I can support us right now. It makes me very uncomfortable to know that I every thing I purchase is being scrutinized. Darling and I are going on a trip soon and she has made it known to me that she is keeping an accounting of what we spend and that I should keep him in line.
I don't like being in the middle of this and have told him so but I don't see much changing. I feel trapped. I mean even at this time if I wanted to move out on my own, I would need his help and his wife would have veto power. So know I have to be a "good little girl" and keep my mouth shut. I mean what choice do I have?