Hi I need advice. Some back story. I just started seeing this triad. I see more of him and the live in girlfriend. Then wife. They asked me to go to Vegas with them everything paid for 10 days but said I had to turn them down because there was no one there to fill In for me at work for that long because they need to hire more people. It would really done so much for this triad that I'm see. Because of it being personal and business they were busy before and after so I haven't seen them alone in about a month sexual to bond more deeply. Just a few quick walks with girlfriend who needed a friend to talk to. We don't play alone together. It would been great photography opportunity for me as well.
They also asked me if I go with them on a over night trip to shoot photos which would be personal and professional. I had to yes a month and half before the schedule is out because they would have had to find someone else to work with asp as someone dropped out for medical. It is a big step for us because I had to book the room as there are few rooms with one king bed. It's only him, girlfriend and me going. It would be a big step and bring us so much closer that I could not say no. It wod be the first time spending the night with them. We play it never spend the night. I said no once before. I only work four days a week and get three off any so I didn't think asking for my three to bee off in a row would be so bad. Because they have to find someone ever week to work my three days off. I never ask off. Now I'm stressing hard core because I might not get those day off. The schedule is not out yet and would only be for two weeks. I need to know about the weekend after.
I could not tell my boss or manger about how this could change things greatly with the people I'm with and be good for me professional. They don't know about them and I don't think they understand. I really need this bonding time as life has been super busy and stressed for us in August. Not sure what do?
They also asked me if I go with them on a over night trip to shoot photos which would be personal and professional. I had to yes a month and half before the schedule is out because they would have had to find someone else to work with asp as someone dropped out for medical. It is a big step for us because I had to book the room as there are few rooms with one king bed. It's only him, girlfriend and me going. It would be a big step and bring us so much closer that I could not say no. It wod be the first time spending the night with them. We play it never spend the night. I said no once before. I only work four days a week and get three off any so I didn't think asking for my three to bee off in a row would be so bad. Because they have to find someone ever week to work my three days off. I never ask off. Now I'm stressing hard core because I might not get those day off. The schedule is not out yet and would only be for two weeks. I need to know about the weekend after.
I could not tell my boss or manger about how this could change things greatly with the people I'm with and be good for me professional. They don't know about them and I don't think they understand. I really need this bonding time as life has been super busy and stressed for us in August. Not sure what do?