rolypoly
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Nerdist would hermit if I didn't entice him out of his thoughts and mind... such is our relationship.
I'm exactly the same way. Think you can handle dragging two people out of their heads? LOL!!!
Nerdist would hermit if I didn't entice him out of his thoughts and mind... such is our relationship.
I wasn't the one who was annoyed.
I can't speak for Redpepper or Polynerdist but "energy" is what seams to give me confidence in the people I meet. I feel it with you and Derby as well as with Redpepper's tersiary. It's easy to be patient for people who have a certain energy about them. It's the kind of energy that doesn't make demands or impose...it says "here I am" and merely shares in a way that is natural and inviting.
I wrote this in another thread,
"I'm really impressed with how its been going for you so far. You are really being smart and respectful. Your consideration for all concerned and your self is to be commended. The time and patience you have been taking is great.
I think you have lots of time to work this out and let things fall into place. A lot of your concerns will be answered in time and the answers will become evident if you leave them to manifest into what should become.
After all, its all new and no doubt you have not only some NRE (new relationship energy) with him, but the whole situation and poly itself." http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2876
I think I am essentially saying it to you too.
I'm not sure what the rush is to figure any of it out. There is the whole summer and when the time comes and winter is upon us, it might be more evident.
Anyway, I'm going to just give it a rest for a bit....
Have a tea and read a book. Take a night off Roly
or talk to Nerdist while I deal with cat pee on a carpet.
I had to cut your conversation short in order to get some help sorry for interrupting.
I suggested to Nerdist that perhaps he should drive you around a bit to look at areas... there is some beautiful places that don't mean you have to live in the city, but I realize it might be hard to know this if you are busing it.
It sounds like your alternative is not great either... you already lived there once no? and had to leave there too... although I don't know the circumstances.