Ok, so like, we’ve been in a poly relationship for going on 1yr 1/2. When we first started and months in the relationship I kept telling her I don’t need anyone else, that having her *was enough, but now I feel like it isn’t enough and I want to have a second person myself. She is married, I’m her gf. We’ve always been very open about everything but I feel like telling her that I want a second person will someone damage the relationship? I don’t know if I’m confused right now, or what’s going on, but I feel like I want that new fling, new person but I just feel like she won’t be okay with it? She’s been in numerous poly relationships, this is my first. We did talk about it before, told her I might want someone but she was like “I don’t know how it’ll be, you’ll probably dedicate all your time to her and won’t show love to me”, something along those lines, cuz I’m a loving person at heart and will make sure you feel loved, but like her reaction isn’t one I was expecting. IDK, sometimes like when I don’t answer my phone she’s like totally thinking I’m cheating on her which has come to be a turn off. Or like she always says she wants me to go ahead and have fun with my guy friends yet the moment I do it always ends up getting her upset in some way. Like two weekends ago I went out with my friends and brought a new friend, gf couldn’t make it, and she was like “yea going out showing your new friend to them all, you must want something with her” etc. She makes me happy, she does but there is something missing, ya know? How can I approach this convo with her? All I need is advice and if ever you’ve been in this situation. Also, the sex life is not there much and to me sex plays a big part. I just want to do it every day.