Hello,
just slowly adding some flexibility and permissiveness in our couple.
Nothing major but we have had some experiences here and there and I am trying to explore the possibilities.
So I am an adult man and want to meet people in everyday situations outside the regular circle.
It's easy to actually "meet" people but when it comes to developing a friendly relationship (keeping contact?), people back off once they know I am in another one already....and this is by just trying to make opposite sex friends at that point...nothing more.
I am surely a bit flirtatious and like to compliment the women I like but they get uncomfortable once I tell them I am in a relationship.
One girl emailed me and everything changed when I told her I had a GF and that it was OK for us to be friends...
It's no big deal but is there a wat to approach it sensibly without scaring people off?
I will not just go out there and tell people "just like that" that I am in a flexible relationship...that won't happen.
I want to make friends first.
Maybe it's just the nature of the beast?
just slowly adding some flexibility and permissiveness in our couple.
Nothing major but we have had some experiences here and there and I am trying to explore the possibilities.
So I am an adult man and want to meet people in everyday situations outside the regular circle.
It's easy to actually "meet" people but when it comes to developing a friendly relationship (keeping contact?), people back off once they know I am in another one already....and this is by just trying to make opposite sex friends at that point...nothing more.
I am surely a bit flirtatious and like to compliment the women I like but they get uncomfortable once I tell them I am in a relationship.
One girl emailed me and everything changed when I told her I had a GF and that it was OK for us to be friends...
It's no big deal but is there a wat to approach it sensibly without scaring people off?
I will not just go out there and tell people "just like that" that I am in a flexible relationship...that won't happen.
I want to make friends first.
Maybe it's just the nature of the beast?