AutumnWhisper
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So i've read through the glossary and terms and have come across unicorn. I guess you could say that my husband and I are unicorn hunters. I know I shouldn't take it too seriously and have read threads about how they do exist and its only a joke.. but I really don't want to be seen as naive as it seems the term goes... I myself have always been perfectly okay with the idea of being polyamorous. I guess you could say I was that flip flopper between mono and the idea of poly (because no one I was ever with was into the idea >< frustrating to say the least and because of that I even at one point just wanted to join a couple thinking it would make it easier!! XD) I want to be in a relationship with a man and a woman, always have. When my husband and I were first seeing each other he admitted to me that he wanted me and another girl at the same time, and wondered why he couldn't have both. I immediately said to him that it wouldn't be a problem to me and was even open to the idea of having a relationship with her. He loved the idea at the time. Of course things didn't go smoothly between him and her.. and I'm glad cause she was such a bad thing for him, and someone who I discovered would not be in relationship with(but i didn't know her at the time I told him I wouldn't mind being in relationship with her.)
Anyways I'm really trying to not make this a TLDR post.. I'm just really concerned with my husband and I as being seen as naive... Is it really silly for us to want a triad with that third person as a bisexual woman. It's not about sex for us I promise. I really want to emotionally and mentally connect with a woman and my husband has already had these feelings of poly before and he just wants to be himself. Together ultimately I guess we want to be ourselves. Anyways thanks for reading.
Anyways I'm really trying to not make this a TLDR post.. I'm just really concerned with my husband and I as being seen as naive... Is it really silly for us to want a triad with that third person as a bisexual woman. It's not about sex for us I promise. I really want to emotionally and mentally connect with a woman and my husband has already had these feelings of poly before and he just wants to be himself. Together ultimately I guess we want to be ourselves. Anyways thanks for reading.