redpepper
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Thanks, jane!
PN gave our tenants their notice tonight. Two months and then we take over the whole house. I will have my own room and Mono will move in on or about Dec. 1st.
I'm a little shocked, as I didn't see it coming this quickly. But as PN said, there was nothing left to do but try it. We have a lot of talks ahead to figure our timelines and scheduling, as it will all change in time. But things are actually MOVING!! Change is upon us.
I can feel it's effects already.
On another note, I spent two evenings in a row making pillows for my boy's new room at my parents' new cottage. Anyone who has read our coming out thread knows that this would've been completely impossible a year ago. We have come so far!
I told them about our situation finally, and what was happening, and they thought we were crazy not to find another house for us all to live in. Baby steps right? It will come if it is meant to, when everyone sees if it works out. All in all, they thought it made sense and listened with interest and asked questions. I explained that I spend two nights away from home and have never liked i. Now I won't have to. They agreed that this was going to be a good idea. I'm sure there will be more questions and concerns to follow. But so far, so good.
I talked to PN about roly today. He is still hurt and embarrassed about it, as she has obviously moved on. He is far happier though, and is engaging more with all of our lives. He looks sad when he talks of her. But really, there is not much more to do.
I seem to be friends with her ex here, all of a sudden, as a result of our camping trip. Now I am wondering what happened between them. It's not my business. I know she had a hard time meeting him to sort some stuff out. But he is such a nice guy. I don't get it. Ah well, not for me to know about, and I really don't need to.
Having looked at our finances, I am thinking now of going to the Lovemore conference this fall in Seattle. If anyone else is going, please PM me. I'd love to meet up, if it's possible.
PN gave our tenants their notice tonight. Two months and then we take over the whole house. I will have my own room and Mono will move in on or about Dec. 1st.
I'm a little shocked, as I didn't see it coming this quickly. But as PN said, there was nothing left to do but try it. We have a lot of talks ahead to figure our timelines and scheduling, as it will all change in time. But things are actually MOVING!! Change is upon us.
I can feel it's effects already.
On another note, I spent two evenings in a row making pillows for my boy's new room at my parents' new cottage. Anyone who has read our coming out thread knows that this would've been completely impossible a year ago. We have come so far!
I told them about our situation finally, and what was happening, and they thought we were crazy not to find another house for us all to live in. Baby steps right? It will come if it is meant to, when everyone sees if it works out. All in all, they thought it made sense and listened with interest and asked questions. I explained that I spend two nights away from home and have never liked i. Now I won't have to. They agreed that this was going to be a good idea. I'm sure there will be more questions and concerns to follow. But so far, so good.
I talked to PN about roly today. He is still hurt and embarrassed about it, as she has obviously moved on. He is far happier though, and is engaging more with all of our lives. He looks sad when he talks of her. But really, there is not much more to do.
I seem to be friends with her ex here, all of a sudden, as a result of our camping trip. Now I am wondering what happened between them. It's not my business. I know she had a hard time meeting him to sort some stuff out. But he is such a nice guy. I don't get it. Ah well, not for me to know about, and I really don't need to.
Having looked at our finances, I am thinking now of going to the Lovemore conference this fall in Seattle. If anyone else is going, please PM me. I'd love to meet up, if it's possible.