Short history: me and Joe been married 4 years, Alli and Greg 3 yrs. Each had a few threesomes but nothing else. We all met in Vegas, hit it off, ended up girl on girl first night, swapping second night. We live in Florida they live in Michigan. We all kept in touch. Two months later they come to visit us for 5 days and we swapped the whole time with some girl on girl mixed in. Now me, Joe and Alli are all in. We actually want this to be our future and dream of all living together and making it our lives. Greg however has low self esteem and it's never been brought up but we can all tell he's not on the same page.he has shown some jealousy but nothing we didn't talk about and get over. My question is, should we give him time and see what happens or bring it up next month when we go visit them? Not sure what to do!? I don't want to bring it up and ruin what we already have but then again we all want to know what he feels. Oh and he jokes a lot (part of the insecurities) so he's not the easiest person to approach with a serious conversation. Help!!!