I am convinced this is the life for me. I realized it about 2 years ago. It actually seems so much more natural then the "traditional". I am a 44 year old, SBM. I have been a confirmed bachelor all my life. That is, until recently when I started to have second thoughts about that. At some point in my life, I want to be in a loving poly relationship. All of us having the same goals and supporting each other. I am not ready now. I need to work on myself first, both emotionally, financially and maybe in some other ways to. But, in the meantime I want to learn as much as I can. And, hopefully that will help insure the poly relationship I hope to have will be a happy and successful one. So, that is why I joined this site, to learn as much as I can.