Someone must have dialed 911 for the Internet Thought Police.
If the OP is really what they claim to be, then i owe them a hefty apology for being wrong. But there are too many things that just don't sound right. Taken one by one, these things could be rationalized and dismissed as anomalous, but all together the discrepancies and details just make me skeptical. I have seen this happen before on other forums. Someone comes on with a gut-wrenching sob-story that is tailored to a recurring motif on that forum, and the more replies they get, the more outrageous and extreme their situation becomes. These trolls do it to see how much attention and fervor they can generate, and some of them even try to see if people will offer them money to get out of their "desperate" situation. For a time, it seemed to me that that was the direction this was headed in.
I remain unconvinced either way; i still think this has a lot of basic contradictions that cannot be proven or disproven. I mean, i can't PROVE that a person is incapable of washing dishes while surfing the internet, but if those people JUST got done yelling at the OP to do dishes, wouldn't they be yelling at her to get off the %&$@ internet WHILE washing dishes? And doesn't the water from the dishes ruin the electronic device? I mean, do i have to articulate all this word for word? Something just doesn't seem right with this one.
I repeat - if i am wrong, if the events set forth here are indeed authentic, then i apologize to the OP for my mistake and for any distress my words may have caused.