classycaveman
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So, my girlfriend M is currently travelling in South America. A couple nights ago she was assaulted. A man got on top of her while she was asleep in bed, next to another guy. She scared him away but he came back at least once before morning.
The next night, while I was at C's house (a girl I've been seeing about once a week since December) she contacted me and explained what had happened. I chatted with M for about an hour and a half, trying to help her feel better. C waited patiently.
After M went to bed, and I was sure there was nothing else I could do to help her, (googled Peru tourist police etc.) I resumed my night with C and we had sex. When M found out we'd had sex she said she felt 'destroyed.' She says I should have just gone home. I don't know what to think.
On the one hand, I had done everything I could to help the love of my life feel ok. On the other, shouldn't the attempted rape of your girlfriend keep you from being able to have sex with someone else?
The next night, while I was at C's house (a girl I've been seeing about once a week since December) she contacted me and explained what had happened. I chatted with M for about an hour and a half, trying to help her feel better. C waited patiently.
After M went to bed, and I was sure there was nothing else I could do to help her, (googled Peru tourist police etc.) I resumed my night with C and we had sex. When M found out we'd had sex she said she felt 'destroyed.' She says I should have just gone home. I don't know what to think.
On the one hand, I had done everything I could to help the love of my life feel ok. On the other, shouldn't the attempted rape of your girlfriend keep you from being able to have sex with someone else?