faeriesrreal
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ok so it has been awhile since i have been here. and i know my poly hubby and i should most likely seek counseling but i am not sure at this point it will work.he has had one semi serious gf, which i was ok with because i liked her and i knew she wasn't a threat to me or to us as a couple. but he has now found another girl who lives a pretty good distance away adn they have a lot in common supposedly (more than what we have now it looks like). I also had one semi serious bf but he broke it off because of his own personal reasons. what i am afraid of is hubby leaving me because he says we don't share enough interests anymore, and it's true. he is into different geeky stuff than i am. i only just recently also admitted to myself that i am in fact a geek girl; which is something that he had been trying to help me realize that had been a sticking point. we have tried finding things we both like to do but there just isn't a whole lot. he likes video games, board games, card games, computers, anime. I like more of the paranormal, conspiracy theories, science and history. another thing that is a problem is that he feels like he is a woman stuck in a man's body. he likes to dress up occasionally and that makes me very uncomfortable. he DOES NOT want a sex change and he does not want to go around full time as a woman, he just has more female feelings and it does make him comfortable to wear dresses and make up and be made love to as a woman. i get really weirded out by this. so, not only does he want another relationship with a woman, he wants to feel free to act out as a woman on occasion. i am just so lost and confused and scared because we have been together 12 years. i would appreciate anyone reaching out to me with support and some kind advice. I know I had been speaking to a couple of you previously and had been a wonderful source of support. i would gladly give my cell number to whoever feels that they would be willing to speak to me as typing on here can be time consuming. thank you.