jeffanddannie
New member
so just a question.... how many relationships do you have and how many do you think is to many ? and why....
I'm sorry. I guess I just don't see the point in taking a poll if there's no relatable information. Knowing other's bursting points doesn't tell you what's "normal" or really help work anything out about your own situation. At least to me. If it helps you, I hope you get what you need.
Some people just like having conversations. Like talking about one's favorite movie.the information being shared doesn't have to be useful for anything
I've had up to 4 sweeties and I know that is way too much. Even 3 is too much. I start forgetting what I told to who. I am driving too much, or readying my house for someone, or getting in the right food and drink, or choosing an outfit, or having first date butterflies, or feeling like I am neglecting someone who would like to see more of me, etc.
So, 2 is good for me. Helps that both my partners really suit me, and I don't have any unmet needs, that I can't fill myself or with platonic friends.
Sometimes I feel my bf is too polysaturated and I start to feel neglected. It can become a serious problem. Right now he's got me, a FWB relationship with my gf, and he has his wife. But he's always trolling for new... We've had to have serious talks about the impact his divided attention can have on me, especially if I am going through other life stresses or health issues that make me feel physically and emotionally weakened.