Do you think that us both looking together as a couple would be the right way to do it? And I'm very new to this so it's like I really need someone who knows this situation and could help me through this. My partner knows I'm seeking advice on here, and is glad that I am looking into it more, so this is quite a big step for me as before I would like the idea but be afraid of actually making a choice, knowing what I wanna do, and actually picking someone for a relationship for him.
I don't think many people in the world would find this "normal", as before I wouldn't find this normal. I am finding it hard understanding my own feelings about it, and Iv'e even had a couple of dreams about my partner having sex with other people, especially certain same people over and over again, it's pretty much the same person.
I'd actually like to get on with the person too, I mean I'd like to be able to share things with her, and talk to her as a friend... But the problem is I just don't think I have the guts to, but I feel like I keep letting him down, and that seems to get me down a lot too.