Kaymarie621
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Hi everyone, I'm Kacy, I'm married, but kinda
Of confused about my life...haha. My husband and I, I guess would identify as swingers? But then we both have I guess you could call it a boyfriend/girlfriend. For example, I've been seeing a guy for a year. We've had 3somes (meaning he, my husband and I) he comes over and hangs out and helps us work on our house and I do feel romantically involved. It is definitely more than just sex. It's like were...in a relationship I guess I could say. So is it safe to identify as poly? I'm just really confused. I just feel like, life is too short and it's impossible to only love 1 person. I feel as though I just fall in love rather easily? I do fell as though I've know my boyfriend forever and can't imagine life without him.
I'm also...interested in women and would definitely love a live in bf/gf...both? Sorry if I'm short here...just kinda exploring the site.
I guess again our main point is would we be considered poly?
Also, are there any people out there who have more than 1 bf/gf in edition to their spouses? Or is it typically either 3way or 2 couples? Please pardon my ignorance, do not mean to offend anyone, have just been...interested for a long time.
Help me better understand our life! Haha!
Of confused about my life...haha. My husband and I, I guess would identify as swingers? But then we both have I guess you could call it a boyfriend/girlfriend. For example, I've been seeing a guy for a year. We've had 3somes (meaning he, my husband and I) he comes over and hangs out and helps us work on our house and I do feel romantically involved. It is definitely more than just sex. It's like were...in a relationship I guess I could say. So is it safe to identify as poly? I'm just really confused. I just feel like, life is too short and it's impossible to only love 1 person. I feel as though I just fall in love rather easily? I do fell as though I've know my boyfriend forever and can't imagine life without him.
I'm also...interested in women and would definitely love a live in bf/gf...both? Sorry if I'm short here...just kinda exploring the site.
I guess again our main point is would we be considered poly?
Also, are there any people out there who have more than 1 bf/gf in edition to their spouses? Or is it typically either 3way or 2 couples? Please pardon my ignorance, do not mean to offend anyone, have just been...interested for a long time.
Help me better understand our life! Haha!
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