OH MY FUCKING GOD
I wish I could say I was sorry, but I am not, flame away should you feel, if you got smokes, light em, cause I will gladly leave another forum rather than suffer the unspoken rules of taking it upon yourself to influence others by going out of your way to spread a little poison under the fallacy of justification that you are somehow doing somebody a favor or preventing some bi babes abuse in some unknown person's future, it's complete and utter bullshit and failure to recognize it is one of the failures of most poly communities.
But like NASA claiming they put a person on the moon, like "professional" wrestling isn't scripted acting albeit a little more violent or any other occurrence where something is blatantly obvious yet under know circumstances will it ever be admitted, by whatever lame rule of whatever hopelessly flawed set of beliefs "there is no fight club"
what fucking ever, fuck you
I don't give a fuck, my name is Dusty and I and don't give fuck, there is something wrong when you cannot openly discuss or are forced to abide by laws which dictate the "TRUTH" that you are allowed to believe. The same as it is abusive, nay one of the fundamentally worst ways you can infringe upon another persons Rights by dictating a persons religion or allowance to publicly no believe in God, this falls right in line of the level of wrongness perpetrated when you dictate who a person is allowed to LOVE, in my mind it is a serious offense, one that unfortunately there can never be a law against because no matter what laws you write against wrongful discrimination, the only way you can completely stop it would be to commit and equal level of crime, and that is just plain fucking deleterious
and just like the fatally flawed bullshit philosophy of the lesser of two evils amounts to nothing but terrorism because you can always choose neither evil and let them that will do evil, do evil, as you are NOT responsible for another person's actions and such threats are empty
In case you haven't Duckshoes, some places where polyamorous people hang out, whether it be online or in real life, have taken it upon themselves to believe they are more qualified than you are to make decisions in your life if it looks like it may cross the line that divides monogamy and any form of non-monogamy. So rather than risk that your girlfriend is capable enough to decide for herself that she will not let a couple manipulate her, if your relationships are not "bomb-proof" they take it upon themselves to sling the literal (with words) equivalent to ensure your mind can handle every worst thought that could possibly enter your mind, and that is a fucked up thing to do. And I have never once, not ever witnessed people ever admitting it so when denial is rampant, you can't even discuss the problem, hence it will always be a problem.
fuck that, you did nothing wrong, you were honest, I don't give a fuck if you cannot bring yourself to letting a lover see other people, that is not my right to interfere and I fully remember the reason why I severed all contact with certain people in my life due to "poly" related reasons, and if you are too stupid to admit it, well fuck you too, there are people who are not afraid of the truth, and who fully understand that denial of the TRUTH doesn't mean you have to infringe upon others' rights to know the truth, and it is NOT right for any of you to set the bar on how "thick skinned" a persons psyche need be, and should you still feel the need to scratch your head and say "huh?" let me save you the trouble
fuck you too
Just so you know Duckshoes, my words are not directed at you