alibabe_muse
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Is it possible to become emotionally dependent on someone even if you don’t live with that person?
My partner Ganga mentioned prior to meeting in person that’s what he likes about polyamory is it frees him from that.
Last night he discussed with me how he’s feeling, over extended. It is 3 months in, fitting me into his life and staying on top of his priorities. It’s his issue and he said such but he’s feeling hmm I sense afraid of his feelings for me.
He also mentioned emotional attachment while he was working out his thoughts. I sense his feelers towards me are more than he wants to accept for himself.
I explained to him, again, just because I said I love you while playing the other night, in no way am I expecting it back nor am I asking for commitment.
For me love feels great aka NRE. But how does one help with their words a lover discern emotional attachment isn’t a bad thing (as long as autonomy is retained) and that it doesn’t have to become emotional co-dependence?
My partner Ganga mentioned prior to meeting in person that’s what he likes about polyamory is it frees him from that.
Last night he discussed with me how he’s feeling, over extended. It is 3 months in, fitting me into his life and staying on top of his priorities. It’s his issue and he said such but he’s feeling hmm I sense afraid of his feelings for me.
He also mentioned emotional attachment while he was working out his thoughts. I sense his feelers towards me are more than he wants to accept for himself.
I explained to him, again, just because I said I love you while playing the other night, in no way am I expecting it back nor am I asking for commitment.
For me love feels great aka NRE. But how does one help with their words a lover discern emotional attachment isn’t a bad thing (as long as autonomy is retained) and that it doesn’t have to become emotional co-dependence?