Especially for those of you who are culturally or personally direct about issues...
If you and a love have an issue going on, something that's really bothering you, and they want to talk about it later, how long feels reasonable? (It might be different from someone you have regular contact with and some that don't).
I find past a few days, I've come to lots of conclusions as a way to get out of limbo and sometimes have to go back and rethink. People asking for 1-3 weeks drives me nuts. I'm sometimes able to hold off a while- but I find it starts coming out in ways I don't like if it's weeks.
I prefer to talk either right away, or after 1-2 days to get my stuff sorted first.
If you and a love have an issue going on, something that's really bothering you, and they want to talk about it later, how long feels reasonable? (It might be different from someone you have regular contact with and some that don't).
I find past a few days, I've come to lots of conclusions as a way to get out of limbo and sometimes have to go back and rethink. People asking for 1-3 weeks drives me nuts. I'm sometimes able to hold off a while- but I find it starts coming out in ways I don't like if it's weeks.
I prefer to talk either right away, or after 1-2 days to get my stuff sorted first.
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