I'm 56, female and recently separated from my husband of 8 years. I happened upon this culture after reading the profile of a visitor to my online dating profile. Yes, I did say, eek "online dating," but how else does one meet people when they are a work-a-holic? It peaked my interest when there was mention of polyamory, so I looked it up and your forum, hoping maybe to find some answers or insight into something that may help my situation. I would appreciate any and all advice or words of wisdom and love.