Hello and presentation from CGM

CGM

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Hi!
We just found this forum with many informations and experiences - so we hopo to learn more and contribute our experience.
Just to present ourselves:
We started out as a married couple, P (m) and R(f), 20 years ago. We are - and have been since our dating before marriage - swingers and have a happy marriage without children. We live in Italy and always go for a week to Cap d'Agde, but in the Americas we have been to the Desire resort in Mexico. Severally years ago we started to add also male singles to our swinger couple friends and have always been very open to all kind of lifestyle experiences. So today we have a nice group of swinger couple friends, as well as 4-5 fix male friends. No emotions involved, the rule is always to consider it only a play, like a good dinner, with no emotional involvement.
3 years ago we met - not in the lifestyle scene but at normal social level - a lady, M, with which Raffaella got immediately in feeling. No sex involved.
To make it short, one year ago we discovered to be in love with each other. How is a long story, we can tell in another post, if of intetest. Since than we pass most of our free time together, M stays with us whenever her work allows it and we pass much of the holiday time united.
M had a normal, uncomplicated free sexual life before meeting us. She knows of our been swingers but had never be personally involved with the lifestyle world before.
Maybe she will move in definitively with us someday, but we don't want to "burn" the times. Now she has her private room in our apartment and we mostly sleep all three together.
Some month ago, in occasion of our 20th wedding anniversary and first anniversary of becoming a triad (same day) we bought us three new wedding rings with CGM in it :) .
We are happy to share our experiences, if of interest, and would like to learn from others. There are so many things to discuss, from the great problems of interpersonal psicology and social behaviour and acceptance to the small ones like searching always for three-bed-rooms in the hotels when on holiday!
In Italy swinging is quite diffuse, the lifestyle community is growing fast, but speaking about it is difficult. Poliamory is even more "exotic" and we are not aware of any group or forum.
 
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Greetings CGM,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Sounds like you have a lovely triad relationship, that's great to hear. Let us know if you have any questions.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Hi Kevin,
We are looking around. The computer work is done mainly b y me (P) as I am the one who knows english.
Yes, we are pretty well of also if a lot of work has to be done by all of us. But we want to figure it out and that''s why we are here, to learn as much as possible. When we got together we did not even know the term Poliamory. :)
 
Yeah, polyamory is definitely "a thing," and there is a world to learn about it. Just look around, and see what threads call to you. That's a good place to start.
 
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