N.R.E is not always puppies and rainbows, especially for those of us who tend to love "too much." The come down from those love chemicals can make one feel insecure, over-sensitive to imagined slights from our lover, distracted at work, etc..
Right now, N.R.E. for my boyfriend of 5+ months is kicking my ass. I don't currently have any other partners to contend with, but when he and I get in an argument, I lose my appetite until I hear from him again, I start checking my phone every two seconds if I haven't heard from him in a day, shit like that. What's worse is I think he already went through his N.R.E for me (he fell hard for me a year ago, before we were officially dating,) and I only recently became truly emotionally invested, so I feel like there's been a massive shift from where I was calm and cool while he pursued, he is now confident, and I am pursuing.
I'm seeking some tips and tricks for getting a grip when my body is screaming at me that I just need to get under him and nothing else matters. I try to make sure I schedule time with my friends, stay active on dating sites, get my work done, etc., but I feel half-insane. Does anyone else find N.R.E. overwhelming? How do you get through it?
Right now, N.R.E. for my boyfriend of 5+ months is kicking my ass. I don't currently have any other partners to contend with, but when he and I get in an argument, I lose my appetite until I hear from him again, I start checking my phone every two seconds if I haven't heard from him in a day, shit like that. What's worse is I think he already went through his N.R.E for me (he fell hard for me a year ago, before we were officially dating,) and I only recently became truly emotionally invested, so I feel like there's been a massive shift from where I was calm and cool while he pursued, he is now confident, and I am pursuing.
I'm seeking some tips and tricks for getting a grip when my body is screaming at me that I just need to get under him and nothing else matters. I try to make sure I schedule time with my friends, stay active on dating sites, get my work done, etc., but I feel half-insane. Does anyone else find N.R.E. overwhelming? How do you get through it?