Kitsune's post was all good, sorry for the confusion. I was referring to janmen's reply. It would have been better as a PM. Not to mention that it made no sense since Kitsune stated her gender as female in her post and janmen said they were interested in men.
This part of the forum is Dating & Friendships, but this particular thread isn't for pick-ups if you read the original post, which is always a good idea before posting to any thread. So putting your location and gender is totally kosher, but putting what you're seeking is better done in a new thread.