Hi Unicornhunter - and welcome to the Forum. We have a number of experienced poly folks here who are generally friendly and helpful, so please do no hesitate to post any specific thoughts and questions that you might have.
"Unicorn hunting" has a somewhat different connotation in the polyamorous community than in the "swinger scene". You might find the following article helpful: https://davidlnoble.livejournal.com/176039.html