Bluebird
Well-known member
Thanks everyone who has replied so far!
Emm, I added that part recently and it has reduced those types of responses since. I didn't think about guys who might respond that way just because I said it! People need to get more things to do in life if they are replying for that reason! Actually, I guess I should be glad they let me know they are losers rigt away. :/ but yeah, I did just add it.
I also just added the part about being on a diet - your explanation makes sense so I think I will cut that out. I can tell that if I make plans to go out, when we meet. It's not like they will look at my photo and think I need to lose tons of weight anyway.
I had my first cheater last night! Guy sounded awesome, but when I checked his questions, he said he was against open relationships. When questioned, he said he and his wife had tried poly, but she was too fragile to handle it, so he was being poly by himself while she stayed mono. Then I saw his profile said single and made no mention of a wife. I called him out on that and he told me he had to do what he needed to do. I told him that wasn't poly and I wasn't interested in helping him cheat. Ugh.
That said, I had one poly guy message me yesterday, though I'm not getting a good feel on him. There's another poly guy that visited me but didn't message and I like his profile lots. I'm discouraged he didn't message. I think I will send my first initial contact message to him today.
Emm, I added that part recently and it has reduced those types of responses since. I didn't think about guys who might respond that way just because I said it! People need to get more things to do in life if they are replying for that reason! Actually, I guess I should be glad they let me know they are losers rigt away. :/ but yeah, I did just add it.
I also just added the part about being on a diet - your explanation makes sense so I think I will cut that out. I can tell that if I make plans to go out, when we meet. It's not like they will look at my photo and think I need to lose tons of weight anyway.
I had my first cheater last night! Guy sounded awesome, but when I checked his questions, he said he was against open relationships. When questioned, he said he and his wife had tried poly, but she was too fragile to handle it, so he was being poly by himself while she stayed mono. Then I saw his profile said single and made no mention of a wife. I called him out on that and he told me he had to do what he needed to do. I told him that wasn't poly and I wasn't interested in helping him cheat. Ugh.
That said, I had one poly guy message me yesterday, though I'm not getting a good feel on him. There's another poly guy that visited me but didn't message and I like his profile lots. I'm discouraged he didn't message. I think I will send my first initial contact message to him today.