SNeacail
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I told her that we could have been so much closer decades ago if we'd been this open from the beginning, and that even though it's scary I wouldn't trade what we have now for anything we had in the past, even though it seemed so much safer.
My husband and I are in the same place (palm to forehead). If I think about it too long, it makes me angry that it took us 20 years to figure out how to start communicating openly with each other.