When this subject comes up, there's always a clear dichotomy of SEX vs. NOT EVEN IN THE SAME ROOM. In there no latitude for nonsexual affection (erotic, sensual) in peoples' minds?
Has no one else here ever had a threesome where the two "vee arms" weren't at all into each other -- figuratively OR literally
-- but didn't get all weirded out about the possibility of touching? Like, just because two women are bi doesn't mean they're
necessarily particularly interested in having sex with each other but are okeydokey (in that moment, at least) with having an interstitial male.
Compared to some people around here, my sex life has been amazingly vanilla... yet I've had plenty of situations where the "arms" (of which I was occasionally) did just fine. Details upon request
but here I'll avoid sordid details, & just say my experiences range MFM, FMF, MMFM, FMM, & MFF, as well as various three- & foursomes where there was huge latitude to play, experience, learn.