I don't find it being coy. . . we're all grown ups, we all know the risks, Runic Wolf and I have been together for 15 years, Wendigo and his wife have been together for 20 years. I am the first outside relationship he's had in 17 years, I can't get pregnant. We've been fluid bonded for 4 years. Runic Wolf hasn't had any LTR's in the last 10 years. He doesn't want any kids outside of our marriage and the few women he's dated don't want kids at this point in their lives either. He's seen it fuck up our friend's life when his SO had an affair and got pregnant by the other guy while he was recovering from spinal surgery. So he doesn't take that risk. Sure, we could have "the talk" but we don't need to because we actually do know each other well enough to expect that.