I'm wondering if a checklist could even be useful, where she could circle "Y" or "N" next to each item. If the checklist was reprintable, you could make another copy in several months or whatever and see if any of the "Y's" or "N's" had changed.
Sounds like you're off on the right foot with this conversation, in any case.
Sounds like you're off on the right foot with this conversation, in any case.