Hi everyone! My fiancé and I are a poly couple, and obviously soon to be a married couple. Here's the issue. We don't know what to do about our poly friends and their SOs on the guest list for our wedding. Our friend has a boyfriend and a husband, and her husband has a girlfriend. Do we have to invite them all? They are not out, which is a further complication. We are having a very small wedding, therefore we wish to invite as few people as possible, but we are making every effort to include our friends, which they definitely are. We mostly know our friend and her boyfriend, and have barely met her husband or his girlfriend. If either one of us were to start dating now, our OSO wouldn't be able to come. Any ideas on how to navigate this tricky situation would be much appreciated. We don't want to hurt or accidentally exclude anyone. One further piece of information is that she seems closer to her bf than her husband, and her husband seems closer to his gf, which may be due to NRE, although they have all been dating for quite some time now. Thoughts?