Bluebird
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OkC roundup! Lol
I haven’t been chatting with the overseas dude - that seems pointless right now and he isn’t really my type.
Switch dude is super into me but it has come out that he is newly separated from his wife (December) and he is with his cheating partner from that time. He says he regrets the timing of that situation and he’s trying to be ethical moving forward. Ugh. I don’t know. We may get together on Monday night but I think he’s probably going to be a no-go for me.
Cat profile guy in therapy - we’re still chatting. I’m going to try and get a date with him next week.
Who else? I have a few other prospects. I just started chatting with another guy with the same name as cat profile dude. We have a 98% match so that is interesting. He’s totally my physical type so we will see where things go.
Let’s see - I have 3 other guys I am sizing up. One guy is out of state until after the weekend, and we’ve agreed on a dinner date for next week but the day is open ended st the moment. We will nail that down soon. It seems we are super into each other over text but he’s on the shorter side so that may be an issue. He is monogamous but has lots of poly experience in that all of his more recent partners have been poly.
Other dude and I match very highly. He is poly and has a wife, and is looking for a FWB if I am remembering correctly. He wants to meet up on Tuesday but we will see. He is very red headed which is a little funny to me, seeing as how I just colored my hair last night!
I have been chatting a bunch with a guy I didn’t meet on OKC, who is in my DMs on Facebook constantly. He’s hit me up a bunch over the past 8 months or so, but I can’t seem to get a read on him. He has not hesitated to ask me out a couple of times but as I wasn’t dating anyone, I’ve always shot him down. He seems awful eager to send me dick pics but has refrained since so told him that’s not something I am interested in until after we are actually a thing. Lol
SmoothJazz and I have a day date set up for next Saturday - not this Saturday. I am going to drive to his condo and then he is going to take me to the Air & Soace Museum that I haven’t been to yet. (There are two.) I am looking forward to seeing him! I have always thought of him as the Black DarkKnight, and I always enjoy his company. He says he is seeing someone right now but she knows I exist and it isn’t serious yet with her. We’ll see where it goes. SmoothJazz isn’t going to be an option for me to get my sub stuff handled but I just like him - I would like to have him as an activity partner and FWB if that works out. He’s just so fucking sweet!
Jesus, writing all that out, my inbox looks crazy. However, I am feeling like these will shake out very quickly. A few I am already iffy about and I think it’ll only take one date to rule them out - or in.
SirGawain has hit me up again, and I told him I was back on OKC. He seemed rather unhappy about that. He has reiterated that he wants me in his life, no matter what that looks like. I tried to articulate how I felt but I am not sure myself. He definitely isn’t the Dom I need and crave right now, but the sex we had was good. He’s sweet too, and a decent human. We have a ton in common. But my time is not infinite as I know how much in love with me he is. I have a feeling that I would feel shitty a lot, dating him, knowing that he wants more that I am not able to give him. He told me straight up a few days ago that he doesn’t care what I can offer - he wants whatever I can give. That sounds desperate, but I don’t feel that he is - he really does have strong feelings for me. I told him I needed to work that out. His feelings give me such pause - as they did when I dumped him in December. I certainly feel better about that now though, after having really nailed down my trust issues in therapy. We will see.
I don’t want to give the impression that I am keeping SirGawain on deck as a backup option - because that isn’t the case. I do care about him.
I haven’t been chatting with the overseas dude - that seems pointless right now and he isn’t really my type.
Switch dude is super into me but it has come out that he is newly separated from his wife (December) and he is with his cheating partner from that time. He says he regrets the timing of that situation and he’s trying to be ethical moving forward. Ugh. I don’t know. We may get together on Monday night but I think he’s probably going to be a no-go for me.
Cat profile guy in therapy - we’re still chatting. I’m going to try and get a date with him next week.
Who else? I have a few other prospects. I just started chatting with another guy with the same name as cat profile dude. We have a 98% match so that is interesting. He’s totally my physical type so we will see where things go.
Let’s see - I have 3 other guys I am sizing up. One guy is out of state until after the weekend, and we’ve agreed on a dinner date for next week but the day is open ended st the moment. We will nail that down soon. It seems we are super into each other over text but he’s on the shorter side so that may be an issue. He is monogamous but has lots of poly experience in that all of his more recent partners have been poly.
Other dude and I match very highly. He is poly and has a wife, and is looking for a FWB if I am remembering correctly. He wants to meet up on Tuesday but we will see. He is very red headed which is a little funny to me, seeing as how I just colored my hair last night!
I have been chatting a bunch with a guy I didn’t meet on OKC, who is in my DMs on Facebook constantly. He’s hit me up a bunch over the past 8 months or so, but I can’t seem to get a read on him. He has not hesitated to ask me out a couple of times but as I wasn’t dating anyone, I’ve always shot him down. He seems awful eager to send me dick pics but has refrained since so told him that’s not something I am interested in until after we are actually a thing. Lol
SmoothJazz and I have a day date set up for next Saturday - not this Saturday. I am going to drive to his condo and then he is going to take me to the Air & Soace Museum that I haven’t been to yet. (There are two.) I am looking forward to seeing him! I have always thought of him as the Black DarkKnight, and I always enjoy his company. He says he is seeing someone right now but she knows I exist and it isn’t serious yet with her. We’ll see where it goes. SmoothJazz isn’t going to be an option for me to get my sub stuff handled but I just like him - I would like to have him as an activity partner and FWB if that works out. He’s just so fucking sweet!
Jesus, writing all that out, my inbox looks crazy. However, I am feeling like these will shake out very quickly. A few I am already iffy about and I think it’ll only take one date to rule them out - or in.
SirGawain has hit me up again, and I told him I was back on OKC. He seemed rather unhappy about that. He has reiterated that he wants me in his life, no matter what that looks like. I tried to articulate how I felt but I am not sure myself. He definitely isn’t the Dom I need and crave right now, but the sex we had was good. He’s sweet too, and a decent human. We have a ton in common. But my time is not infinite as I know how much in love with me he is. I have a feeling that I would feel shitty a lot, dating him, knowing that he wants more that I am not able to give him. He told me straight up a few days ago that he doesn’t care what I can offer - he wants whatever I can give. That sounds desperate, but I don’t feel that he is - he really does have strong feelings for me. I told him I needed to work that out. His feelings give me such pause - as they did when I dumped him in December. I certainly feel better about that now though, after having really nailed down my trust issues in therapy. We will see.
I don’t want to give the impression that I am keeping SirGawain on deck as a backup option - because that isn’t the case. I do care about him.