New-ish to polyamory. Struggling harder than usual.

Well... Slight update:
It turns out the circumstances under which she started seeing this new guy were not what she had told me they were. It had been going on longer and they way they met were different than she had initially purported. Which means she lied again. She says that she doesn't know why she keeps lying and she's trying to get better and to stop it, but this is the third set of lies in a row.
I can no longer trust her. I can't survive an LDR (or any relationship) in which I can't trust my partner. So I ended things.
She's promising to leave this guy and fly out to see me next week "to make it up to me". I told her not to bother. I didn't need her to "make it up me" I needed her to stop lying to me before I completely lost all trust in her.
Yes, I love her. Yes, I'm going to miss what we had. But I'm really sensitive about being lied to, especially after months of continuous lies. I just can't bend anymore.

Thank you, everyone, for your help. This one just want going to survive without trust.
 
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