Neon, if you were a horse-person, you would be a centaur.
LOL Niiiice!I am a centaur, like redpepper and many others here.
I am trying desperately to lose weight, and apart from having gastric banding done, I have tried pretty much everything. I am in a catch 22 situation - I need to excersise to lose some weight, but I cant excersise because of my health.
A lot of days I just want to give up.
My husband says he finds me attractive still - I personally dont feel it, but his perception of me is obviously much different to my own perception of myself.
Karma has told me there were times when I was thin that I was unattractive and times when I've been heavy that I've been very attractive. It's all in my personality and how I hold myself.
When I'm feeling confident and good about things, I can still turn heads. When I'm feeling down, in pain, or just not caring, I know people whisper behind my back.
You would hate me then. I'm super skinny.What's sexy about someone has a lot less to do with their shape and more to do with their eyes and smile and a fearlessness about being themselves. I tend to be attracted to people who are a little bit different, who don't fall into the typical run of the mill "pretty" category (that includes ultra-thin). I tend to like curvy or athletic women and men who are cuddly.
You would hate me then. I'm super skinny.
No...Really. I'm 6'4" and only 170 lbs!
"swagger"....New word, old word. The word's been around for centuries, yet had lost it's meaning and use for many years until about 2 or 3 years ago. WTF does it mean? What IS "swagger" now? I think that too many younger people use this word, to describe the way a man holds himself, rather than the way he walks.Ariakas, the guy I just started seeing is about the same size as you, 6'5" and about 275. He has a round belly and is totally bald. None of that matters. He's got confidence and swagger, and totally turns me on!
Well, I don't know how younger people use it, and don't really care, as the word never fell into disuse for me. I meant the way he struts, but I did use it as a noun, which means a swaggering manner. As a verb, it means the way someone walks. I am a writer (and former spelling bee champion! Woo-hoo) who helps tutor college kids in English, so I am aware of the words I use."swagger"....New word, old word. The word's been around for centuries, yet had lost it's meaning and use for many years until about 2 or 3 years ago. WTF does it mean? What IS "swagger" now? I think that too many younger people use this word, to describe the way a man holds himself, rather than the way he walks.
Funny thing is...I run into a lot of guys seeking to have sex with bigger women. A lot say the sex with smaller chicks is lacking and there have been various reasons why ranging from someone women not building their skill because they are smaller and assumably more attractive, thereby, feeling just the fact they have maintained that and are sharing the ass, a guy should be grateful to guys not being able to girls just being too thin and fragile for somethings. They say bigger women are more exploring and confident sexually plus many are more skilled because they've had to work harder in appealing to partners and maintaining relationships (this is just what I've been told).
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That may be true for young, green girls. I think older women, big or small, get better in bed just because it's fun for themselves to be adventurous, not to merely attract or please a partner.