SterlingMagpie
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My husband and I have tried having a shared 3rd partner in the past, and it hasn't quite worked out. Our interests in people haven't been balanced, resulting in an unbalanced relationship. After a lot of discussion, we're open to both of us seeing other people.
I have a friend that knows my husband and I, and I have quite the crush on him. My husband knows, and is supportive of my interest in my friend.
My friend and I have gone out to the movies once, as friends. (I wanted to make an opportunity to spend time with just them for once. Our entire friendship prior has always been hanging out with a group of people.) We both had a great time. When hanging out with friends, I feel like he's very warm with me - and he gives me tighter and longer hugs when saying goodbye than he does to others.
I think he might like me as well, but I have no idea on how to gauge his interest and openness to polyamory. My husband and I haven't opened up to many people yet that we are poly.
Any suggestions on how to tell your crush that you're poly and interested in them?
I have a friend that knows my husband and I, and I have quite the crush on him. My husband knows, and is supportive of my interest in my friend.
My friend and I have gone out to the movies once, as friends. (I wanted to make an opportunity to spend time with just them for once. Our entire friendship prior has always been hanging out with a group of people.) We both had a great time. When hanging out with friends, I feel like he's very warm with me - and he gives me tighter and longer hugs when saying goodbye than he does to others.
I think he might like me as well, but I have no idea on how to gauge his interest and openness to polyamory. My husband and I haven't opened up to many people yet that we are poly.
Any suggestions on how to tell your crush that you're poly and interested in them?