TrinityLove3
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Hello, my name is Jay, and I'm in a mff triune (somewhat committed) relationship with my wife and our gf. I need some practical advice from others who face the same or similar issues or challenges we face. Without boring you all with a drawn out story lol the short-short version goes like this. We are all in love with each other and want to be together forever, but we are in a situation where our gf is currently married but is unhappy (obviously) and has two kids with him (7 & 5yrs old). I have known our gf since highscool and have been married for 10 years (this coming summer). We feel stuck in an no-win situation, because my wife n I have 3 kids (7, 5, and 10 months), and want to be together, but the women are so scared of the impact on the kids, between what they will understand and think/feel, as well and more importantly the community and possible judicial system (if/when they get divorced). We live in NJ and I guess I just don't see this huge negative impact on the kids as they do, and it is the #1 major issue standing in our way with being together. I am just trying to figure out a way we can be together, and ease their worries and fears, but don't know how to do that. Any advice is welcomed. There are obviously more details, and I will reveal them as they become relevant to the advice, cuz this is already so long lol. Thank you.