nycindie
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She does express an interest, inconsistently, in casual sex. I have said no, and will always say no, because I see no reason for her to go outside of the relationship for something she gets plenty of with her two current boyfriends.
Crazer, this still stands out to me. How do you know what is "plenty" to her? Do you think that your idea of "plenty" should apply to her and determine how much sex she can or should have simply based on the fact that you're dating her? Even if it doesn't seem to her like she's having enough sex or variety?
You seem to have this idea that you and her other current bf should be enough for her and that she should not want more sex than she is already getting, for some reason. But why? And what if she said she wanted another serious, committed, loving relationship with a third man, and even a fourth -- would that be okay with you because it's not casual? Is it really the casual sex that bothers you or the amount of sex she wants? Do you think she should have a cap on the amount of sex and sex partners she's allowed to have?
I am trying to understand your squeamishness about it.
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