NoMansLand
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Who knows what I feel right now...I think there should be a word for the spouse of a person who realizes they are poly.
Although I may feel like our situation is different, the more I read and learn, I now know it's not.
We have been married 7 years and about 4 years ago a situation came up and we began exploring together. We had a couple of girlfriends but it was a Disaster. I had a feeling then that this day would come.
It came 3 weeks ago. We had the real nitty gritty honest talk and came to the conclusion that he is poly and I am...well I don't know. I had never opened my mind to the thought of each of us having separate relationships. All I know right now is I love him with all of my soul and truly want him to be happy.
I am looking for no judgements on my decisions but for help getting through the most challenging thing I have been through in my life. My husband is the love of my life and my best friend..I am trying to stay positive and encourage him and support him. This has me breaking down on the inside though because how is he supposed to enjoy this new life if im there with "feelings".
Although I may feel like our situation is different, the more I read and learn, I now know it's not.
We have been married 7 years and about 4 years ago a situation came up and we began exploring together. We had a couple of girlfriends but it was a Disaster. I had a feeling then that this day would come.
It came 3 weeks ago. We had the real nitty gritty honest talk and came to the conclusion that he is poly and I am...well I don't know. I had never opened my mind to the thought of each of us having separate relationships. All I know right now is I love him with all of my soul and truly want him to be happy.
I am looking for no judgements on my decisions but for help getting through the most challenging thing I have been through in my life. My husband is the love of my life and my best friend..I am trying to stay positive and encourage him and support him. This has me breaking down on the inside though because how is he supposed to enjoy this new life if im there with "feelings".