musicalchairs
New member
So, I just (literally days ago) negotiated my first poly relationship. It came about so easily, I'm wondering what's ahead. I want to make sure I'm considering everyone ahead of time so, asking for your opinions. One relationship is super new but going very well. The other, we've had a strange friendship for almost 2 years now but rarely see each other. Not through lack of trying. Even though I wasn't willing to do anything to jeopardize relationship #1, I didn't want to let go of relationship #2 so I half jokingly said to 2 "maybe we can have a poly relationship". He was totally on board with it. I talked to 1 and he's fine with it (he's been aware of 2 from day 1). So far here are the "rules": 1 only sees me. I see 1 and 2 and 2 sees whomever he likes with me being his "primary" (did I use the term correctly?).
On paper this seems to work for all of us. What am I not taking into consideration?
On paper this seems to work for all of us. What am I not taking into consideration?