MonoVCPHG
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Dude I don't swing that way,
That's what every guy says. Translated, it means, "I don't trust any guy enough to keep a secret so I can find out."
Dude I don't swing that way,
open pants is more like it You want a bonus?! I got yer bonus right here
That's what every guy says..translated it means "I don't trust any guy enough to keep a secret so I can find out"
Lube!Gaud this poly shit is hard!
I laughed out loud
Shhhhh...we don't want to talk about what we were doing last Friday night when you were trying to figure out how to work that zipper
Lube!
Anyone who has seen the two of us doesn't even need to ask who was the bottom in that encounter. Size matters, damn it!
OK enough hijaking, damnit. I don't need RP nipping at my knees.
Gawd this poly shit is hard!
Eat more fibre, You'll find the shit much softer and easier to deal with.
Okay.... REALLY?! three pages on my thread of joking around! seriously, I am trying to be serious here.....
okay, I know it's cause you love me and feel comfortable enough to bug me in this way...
As I try and tell my son, there is bad teasing that relates to bullying and good teasing that means someone loves and feels comfortable with you... I am trying to teach him the difference.
I feel so loved
I'm glad because that's the way mine was meant .
Mono I'm glad I tickled your funny bone , I just hope you weren't drinking anything when you first read it .
I feel so loved
I think there should be a cautionary notice on the forum not to have anything in your mouth when reading posts!
I found it interesting that everyone at our poly group seemed to have the common goal and basic need to feel like they "belonged." PN and I talked about it afterwards on our date the night after. We wondered why "belonging" was different than having a "relationship," or creating "relationships," as we expected it to be.
It came up because I felt so wonderfully warmed to my community and as if they are all my loves. I feel as if I belong to my tribe and have a relationship with them as a group but also with my outer community locally and then again on here... I feel I belong, yet it's different.
The definitions of both:
belonging: acceptance as a natural member or part, secure relationship affinity
relationship: the state of being connected or related, association by blood or marriage; kinship, the mutual dealings, connections, or feelings that exist between two parties, countries, people, etc.
Is "belonging" simply what comes after a "relationship" is formed? After I feel a kinship and have mutual dealings and feel connected and that I can relate, then I will feel I "belong?" Like I have a secure relationship affinity?
If this is so, then I also want and did want to "belong" somewhere. I wanted to "belong" to my loves, many loves. A whole slew of people who love me, beyond my birth family. I wanted chosen family to "belong" to that would live together or closely, in that I wanted "relationships" with all of them that were loving, rewarding, respectful, connected and ongoing.
I think I have found it and I continue to find it over and over again. Not only have I created the "relationships" I want/need, but I have created the "belonging" I need too. Thanks for being a part of that, all of you.