Ejaculation...

But it's not. It's about 3-4 inches in AND you have to curve your fingers SHARP, almost all the way in a U shape. It's such a nightmare. :(
WHEN it gets touched-it's AMAZING. But it's NOT easy to reach at all. Hell-I'm sure Maca could elaborate quite well on it.

I can't reach it to save my life.
NOT ONE toy I've ever bought has ever been able to reach it. They don't even come CLOSE. Furthermore-the rest of the inside isn't particularly sensitive AT ALL. It feels good like someone running their fingers through my hair feels nice, but not in anyway stimulating for something to be inside of me, regardless of what it's doing.
Just further proof that not all women are built the same. Everyone is different and wonderful. Just "like a box of chocolates". LMAO :p
 
I LOVE that movie!
I do wish my chocolate box were a little less....... deep? Naw... a little more straight forward!
:eek:
 
But what do you mean? It should be just inside your vaginal opening. I can even stim my gspot from the outside when I am aroused, on my belly just above the pubic bone.

Wow, thats impressive, I love learning new stuff :D... Everyone of mine had it 3 to 5 inches inside. (although I have recently been told it may be the "a-spot" I have been stimulating due to the length of my finger) I am more than willing to experiment on this new friend to try it out...
 
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On a personal level, I`ve not ever quite understood the fascination with it, from any aspect.

- You can squirt ejaculate without having a orgasm.
So those who like to have 'evidence' of a womans orgasm,..well poof, there goes that theory.

- The amount a woman squirts has no bearing on intensity of the orgasm. Lots of women ( as previously mentioned) tend to clamp with a really strong orgasm. This can cause a gushing or trickling effect, instead of the 'female water-gun' scenario.

My g-spot orgasms are a nice 'warm up'. They feel pleasant, but I dont ever forget to breathe, because of them. Whereas my a-spot orgasms are what I work for. :) That is a whole-body experience.

When I am bringing another woman to orgasm, I can`t say I really care either way. I want her to enjoy and orgasm, but wether that includes fluid or not, doesn`t really matter to me.


..and hell, I am a happy, pervy, voyeur on the best of days. Yet this isnt something that rings that particular bell.

So this is a honest question,..What IS the fascination ? The look ? The feel of it ? Why has it become part of the ' Fuck-It List' ?



...just curious,.....
 
So this is a honest question,..What IS the fascination ? The look ? The feel of it ? Why has it become part of the ' Fuck-It List' ?



...just curious,.....

Honestly its the "knowledge" factor. There is no iffs or butts about it. Its an orgasm with visual and physical appeal :)...

Imagine having sex with a man who can orgasm but never outwardly cums :)

There is also the taboo factor :)...something I am always willing to explore :p

and as a ps, like I said, it is nothing I try at or work towards, if it happens, it happens. Just another thing in my sxual experience I have enjoyed. I could chalk this up to playing with vegetables in a pinch. I have done the food play and don't understand why people are fascinated by it too. It was ok, but toys are better and generally easier to control. I would sure try again if I found a partner with a fetish like that though :)
 
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Well, its just a fact of life. Women can and do squirt when we cum. This has been repressed in Western culture. We've been made to feel ashamed about it, told it's pee, etc, for way too long. Conversely, in Asian cultures, women's flowing juices have been celebrated for millennia. I've seen old erotic woodcuts of men collecting the juices in cups. They even used to collect it in a leather horn shaped cup full of abosrbent material, and put that material in hot water to make tea of it for health.

It's just something I do, and it's an enjoyable, overwhelming sensation. I didnt always, I started in my early 40s. It came as a big surprise the first time, jetting out and down to my knees!

Sometimes I wish I didnt so much, b/c it is messy. But most of the time its just fun and feels great!

I like to raise awareness about it. Celebrate us women in all our wet warm glory!
 
Ahh,..the Taboo of it all, if repressed. Now that makes sense.

No one ever told me not to, or that I shouldn`t. Hence no fascination for me.


Mystery solved, carry on ! :p
 
I get that it's taboo, something to celebrate, something we were kept in the dark about as women in the past.... but I don't get the fascination of late? It just seems like more pressure to preform. Like women are somehow not as sexually apt if they aren't sticking things in there cunts to get them to squirt the furthest or at all for that matter! More competition and achievements to live up to as women... greeeeat.... fucking great :confused:
 
Well, guys have a different mindset than women. It's because of how WE operate. Every time we cum, we ejaculate. Now that we are aware that WOMEN can ALSO ejaculate, some of us think (erroneously) that since they CAN, they SHOULD every time just like WE do, or they didn't really cum, like WE don't cum unless we ejaculate. I mean, if there's no ejaculate, then you didn't get off, so now, because we couldn't get you off, we're less of a man....right? :rolleyes:


Just theory. ;)
 
I get that it's taboo, something to celebrate, something we were kept in the dark about as women in the past.... but I don't get the fascination of late? It just seems like more pressure to preform. Like women are somehow not as sexually apt if they aren't sticking things in there cunts to get them to squirt the furthest or at all for that matter! More competition and achievements to live up to as women... greeeeat.... fucking great :confused:

I think the irony is, the more pressure to perform the less likely it is to happen. And honestly, I don't believe men would ever think the woman is less sexually apt by the way. I would usually "blame" it on myself...just an fyi from the guy side :D

I do agree with tl4, in that it is a visual men have never had. Ironically it has been pointed out to me, and a point I forgot, ejaculation by women does not always include an orgasm.
 
I don't think I've ever experienced an expectation regarding it. :rolleyes:

Nope-I'm certain I haven't.

BUT-I know for me, that there is a TOTALLY different sense of release from that, then I have with other orgasm that don't include ejaculation. :rolleyes:

I am unable to get MYSELF to the point of ejaculation. Frustrated enough at this point that I spent the last 4 hours SERIOUSLY trying to figure out when/if I could get enough privacy in a bed to put a serious effort into figuring out how. But-that's not realistic. I can't get 5 minutes-and I've tried many many times over the years when I had hours.

I most often find that release to be..... like when you have to go to the bathroom so bad it hurts, or that last bit when a baby's shoulders break through and they slide out during delivery?

It's a sudden sense of "NOW I can relax" "NOW I know where peace is" "NOW the world is right around me".
Moments like right now-when my world is careening insanely around me, is when I need that release most.
And yet-here I am 3000 miles away from being able to get that release.

Fucking sucks.

As for expectation-which is what I was supposed to be writing in the first place, I've never had a man put that expectation upon me. I've only ever had myself feeling the urgency of needing it.
AND
Today (as well as the last umpteen days)... is one of those days.

:(
 
Waste not want not :)

I'm a guy who can't stand to waste a drop of excitement..hence why fluid bonding is so fulfilling to me; and by that I mean consuming juices. The idea of dental dams make me cringe with disappointment. I am more than satisfied with slow "milking" Redpepper although however she experiences release of fluids is perfectly fine for me...I'm not wasting any of it regardless...If she squirted she wouldn't see it happen anyways ;)
 
I don't think I've ever experienced an expectation regarding it. :rolleyes:

Nope-I'm certain I haven't.

Me neither. Back 12 yrs ago when I started cumming this way, I didnt know the possibility existed, really.

Even tho I'd read de Sade where he talks of women ejaculating lots of fluid. (Graphicly termed "spraying fuck" and other colorful phrases lol) And Id read other old porn where there was talk of women "spending," again a ref to women's copious jizz.

BUT-I know for me, that there is a TOTALLY different sense of release from that, then I have with other orgasm that don't include ejaculation. :rolleyes:

I am unable to get MYSELF to the point of ejaculation. Frustrated enough at this point that I spent the last 4 hours SERIOUSLY trying to figure out when/if I could get enough privacy in a bed to put a serious effort into figuring out how. But-that's not realistic. I can't get 5 minutes-and I've tried many many times over the years when I had hours.

:( Kids always around?

For me, it was a progression. First I exped jizzing when my ex would finger me for a very long time. I wouldnt start to jizz til after about the 7th to 9th orgasm. I'd need both clitoral and vaginal digital stimulation.

After a couple years, I'd be able to jizz after just 2 or 3 orgasms from fingering or oral sex.

Finally a few more yrs later, I'd be able to make myself cum this way, with clitoral stim alone, and on the first and subsequent orgasms.

I most often find that release to be..... like when you have to go to the bathroom so bad it hurts, or that last bit when a baby's shoulders break through and they slide out during delivery?

Yes, in fact we have to bear down to squirt, just like one does when pushing a baby out.

It's a sudden sense of "NOW I can relax" "NOW I know where peace is" "NOW the world is right around me".

:)

Moments like right now-when my world is careening insanely around me, is when I need that release most.
And yet-here I am 3000 miles away from being able to get that release.

Fucking sucks.




As for expectation-which is what I was supposed to be writing in the first place, I've never had a man put that expectation upon me. I've only ever had myself feeling the urgency of needing it.
AND
Today (as well as the last umpteen days)... is one of those days.

:(


I hate that pent up feeling!
 
My g-spot orgasms are a nice 'warm up'. They feel pleasant, but I dont ever forget to breathe, because of them.

Yeah, this is what I experience. They are a nice release before or between other Os, but not earth-shattering.

Someone else mentioned "constant leaking" during sex ... It's coming from my urethra, but I do get this. I have had partners have to wipe themselves off because I was so wet that neither of us could feel anything anymore!

GAH. I should not be reading about this at work. Wonderfully uncomfortable! :D
 
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