Hi all
This is not poly, and I was asked to take off a poly page. But it is about being attracted and what is harassment.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-29823870
They count men who are only saying "good morning" as harassment. Really?
Ok, so I guess there appropriate ways of flirting, or paying a compliment.. But how to know when a woman might be receptive to a compliment? I guess it differs with every women too.
So it's a minefield to navigate, are we allowed to say when we find someone attractive or not? I've been trying to figure this out for 40 years and I still don't know. The overall message from society is to not say anything, and that your thoughts are wrong, that all sex is wrong (unless permitted by church), and that all men are predators.
This is not poly, and I was asked to take off a poly page. But it is about being attracted and what is harassment.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-29823870
They count men who are only saying "good morning" as harassment. Really?
Ok, so I guess there appropriate ways of flirting, or paying a compliment.. But how to know when a woman might be receptive to a compliment? I guess it differs with every women too.
So it's a minefield to navigate, are we allowed to say when we find someone attractive or not? I've been trying to figure this out for 40 years and I still don't know. The overall message from society is to not say anything, and that your thoughts are wrong, that all sex is wrong (unless permitted by church), and that all men are predators.