JustCurious83
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I also don't understand why you say you "don't want to risk your friendship" with him. If you have such a solid friendship, how is it at risk if you get closer and possibly even add sexual intimacy to the relationship? I think you're overreacting.
Its all depends on the friendship. I am in a closed triad with my best friend and her husband and I had the same questions as you have, I was scared of ruining my friendship. But to be honest my fear had been proven to be completely unfounded other than in my head. Jess and I are honestly closer than we have ever been and our albeit limited sexual relationship has only brought us closer. The three of us are happier than we have been in years and are loving every minute of exploring this new life together.
Good luck and I hope things work out as well for you as they have for me!