So I'm currently in a triad relationship, FMF. It's me, my fiance, and his girlfriend. Me and the girlfriend are not together, however we are close and I consider her one of my closest friends. I have been with my fiance for almost six years and we've been in this relationship for about 10 months. We all live together as well. My issue does not stand with the lifestyle however. Due to the fact, he is with both of us, his attention/affection tends to be split down the middle, and I am a very intimate, affectionate, PDA type of person and as time is going on, I feel as if I am not getting the amount of affection I want. I'm thinking of asking him if I could get another person, however I have no one in mind and I honestly don't see myself seeking out people. I feel as if he would say no, which I'm kind of okay with, as I would rather stay with him then lose him to a random guy. My question is, do you think I should reach out to him and explain that I am missing the affection that I need or should I straight out ask him if I can get another person in the relationship, to take care of the needs he cannot meet?
I would also like to state we are pretty new to this lifestyle and very young (all early 20's). I'd like to include this as perhaps maybe my maturity level isn't up to par with others involved in these types of relationship and maybe I need to do some personal growing to understand the concepts of this relationship. If you think that might be an issue, please state it as well. Thank you all!
I would also like to state we are pretty new to this lifestyle and very young (all early 20's). I'd like to include this as perhaps maybe my maturity level isn't up to par with others involved in these types of relationship and maybe I need to do some personal growing to understand the concepts of this relationship. If you think that might be an issue, please state it as well. Thank you all!