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Old 12-14-2011, 05:57 PM
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Default Disppointed and a bit confused

Well the last time I posted was to introduce myself and share a bit of my story and situation. Unfortunately, my hopes of developing a poly relationship and opening my marriage have pretty much fallen flat.

The lady that I thought was poly, has re-evaluated her feelings and is really a serial monogamous individual, and my wife has turned cold at the idea and our relationship in general.

So I've been wrestling with the strong conclusion that I will need to end this marriage and restart my romantic and social life at 47.

It never easy, to resolve to leave a familiar situation even though you are not getting what you need emotionally from it. I have fears and doubts that I will find what I'm looking for, but I know I'm not going to find it in a marriage which lacks intimacy.

So here's to a new year, and new life.
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Old 12-14-2011, 06:47 PM
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Good luck!
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Old 12-16-2011, 11:02 PM
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Have you and your wife tried counseling yet? Is she adamantly opposed to opening things up, or even talking about it?
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