nycindie
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This couple seems less and less likely to go anywhere. As we start talking about meeting in person for the first time, we're also discussing ideals on how often we would see each other if we do start dating regularly. We've talked about how we need time for the three of us, as well as one-on-one time for me with each of them. For some reason, they think it's okay to plan for the three of us to spend an evening together with little "side dates" for one-on-one time then resuming the group date.
Warning! Control Freaks!
Seriously, why are they planning how dating will go when the three of you haven't even met yet? You guys don't know yet if there will be any sparks or attraction or camaraderie - and that can only be determined by how you feel when together in person. Sounds like a couple who has a picture of what they want and they are already trying to fit you into it, forgetting already that you're an individual with your own wants and preferences. Gah!
Plus, there's this:
BIG RED FLAG. And creepy, especially since you haven't even met you yet. Are you not your own person living your life as you see fit?I don't think they're happy that I do whatever I do with Boy. Being married is fine, but they seem almost jealous of the fact that I already spend one night a week with someone else, too.
I'd steer clear of that shit and cancel meeting them if I were you. Who needs to waste time on control freaks like that? Though you may be excited about getting together with a couple, I'd say you have better options than this couple. Sorry to be so blunt!
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