PAM AND JEROME...Polyamory Pagans @ Pillowville, TN.
We live in a very under-served area of Tennessee for Non-Monogamous Meetups in Northwestern area of the state... within about a 15-30 minute circle from Paris, Mackenzie, Greenville up to Martin. TN. We moved to our new home here in late Summer/early Autumn last year. We had lived just before this in Paso Robles for @ 4 years, Central Coast, CA, We've been together 30 plus years and have had various attempts at finding compatible, ethical, non-monogamous others with real affinity.
Jerome has been in various shared relationships since early 1970s and Pam has had 3 attempts with Polyamory/open-relationship mostly in the late 1990s to early this last decade. We meantime have raised 2 adult daughters and moved all over from Bay Area, California to Connecticut up to Maine and back to Santa Barbara, California and up near Portland, Oregon then to Central Coast for 5 years to here, a State to retire too... I drove Pamela just yesterday to Airport for a three-month stint at her old job (RN in Labor/Delivery) for some great extra cash for home-improvement projects. IE: we are improving our home with hopes of another, trade-up move in a few years up next the Smoky Mts east of Knoxville, TN, maybe North Carolina ~ where there's a bit more culture convenient.
Our goals/predilections are around us both being Straight, it's about having a possible MFM Triad or Quad with other Male and Female partner's... though not get poly-saturated in the process... Living situation for all would be discussed as relationship(s) develop... Passion and imagination and deep-souledness matters! As far as we can provisionally see, (and we do have separate rooms already): dates, separate visiting arrangements, some shared room encounters that would all be dependent on emotional bonding separately and as all things sort out best for each/all... It's not just about casual sex is it? Not that our fleshly fantasies don't go there, neh?! ;~> Integrating interrelational emotional connections, limits/constraints, and keeping faith with our own individual/mutual, independent/dependance mystery dance comes in. There's always more meta to this that Unicorns vs Hierarchical vs anything goes... You may also have significant others come into the whole equation... so might we all have our complexity or three or four. May need a therapy counselor or more involved! ;~>
Jerome's got his Scorpio ways, as Pam has her Virgo/Libra cuspy stuff. You can talk-story, Both are kind of Pagan, but another story for a few bottles between us, that involves trees and snakes and goats and grapes!... Sure would be best to be local and up on Polyamory instead of just entre nous pornfed dabblers. We don't need to deal so much with raising beginners... Though aren't we all "absolute beginners"?