I only asked ONE question and it was quite specific - not broad at all: whose life do you feel you should be able to interfere with - your partner's or your metamour's? The other things I wrote were comments, not questions.
But I have since ascertained that you believe you should be able to influence AND interfere in your partner's other relationships, even though you are not a part of them. Interesting viewpoint.
As far as the possibility of my being offended, that is unlikely. Taking offense is an action someone would choose and it's very subjective. You could do or say something you think is offensive and it would probably not even faze me. I don't generally choose to take offense at things posted by folks I don't know on the internet. It would have to be really important to me to take offense, but this is just a conversation.
Just asking my next question out of curiosity, not judgment: There seems to always be a disconnect between what you interpret others have said to mean, what you try to say, and what people think you're trying to say. I am beginning to think you may have a problem with reading comprehension. Do you have a learning disability? Maybe that's why so many of your discussions get caught up in everyone trying to figure out what you're trying to say. Just wondering - if we knew that, it might help us understand you.