Christ on toast, I forgot about Mosaic.
I feel old now.
You're not that old, unless you also forgot about CP/M.
Hahahahaha
Did you forget about CP/M Ari?
...I've also noticed that there is a lack of common decency amongst people on line (my husband's experience more than my own) of people simply ignoring messages from potential suitors. Would it kill you to write something back and say "thank you for the message but..."
Hello there my name is "X,"
I was just checking out your profile and i wanted to send you a message.
You sound so nice just my type of woman and what im looking for
And your pic's you are so attractive omg so sexy
I would really like to get to know you more and hopefully meet up and i hope all goes well with us
i also prefer older woman i always have my ex is 46
i would like to try having sex with a woman in her 50's to see how it is
When you get a chance message me back i hope to hear from you "X"
Yes there is such thing as short term dating, in fact, a lot of poly people consider this poly because everyone they date knows that they are dating others as well. There is debate as to whether or not this is poly for some people, but the choice is yours to make. There is also fuck buddies, friends with benefits, casual sex, you name it, its out there Its all moral if you think it is... it depends on your values and what you hold as sacred in a relationship. Only you can answer that too. On line dating has been tried and tested and found to be useful. Many people find their partners that way. It is common now and probably the main way that people date. Whether its a good idea is up to you also... I agree with NYCindie that you should try it... and with Mags; OKCupid tends to have a certain type of person attracted to it than others. It's my favourite. POF is big here also, but mostly good for casual hook ups...Is there such thing as short-term dating and is it moral? Is online dating a good idea?
Honestly, Derby, a lot of these guys don't deserve a response. One recent msg I got said: "Sexy." That's all he wrote. An even more recent msg (from a 38 year old, no spring chicken):
If he doesn't know when to use "woman" as opposed to "women," has never heard of a comma or period, and can't bother to capitalize "I," he doesn't rate a response. Not to mention the crass mention of "trying" sex with a 50-something, like I am a carnival sideshow.
. . . a lot of these guys don't deserve a response. . . . If he doesn't know when to use "woman" as opposed to "women," has never heard of a comma or period, and can't bother to capitalize "I," he doesn't rate a response. Not to mention the crass mention of "trying" sex with a 50-something, like I am a carnival sideshow.
what to say...what to say...I'm stumped so I will just say Hi..
Hi,
I'm a 28-year-old married Indian guy from "X", MA but work in "X", MA. I'm a highly educated working professional, clean, fit, sane and d&d free. I'm looking for a hot discreet nsa fun with a mature woman of your age. I have never done this before. Also, I see you have a woman partner, I wouldn't mind her joining if you think she can ;-).
I have always fantasized of being with an older woman(milf/cougar type), but never been with one.
Please revert back , if you are interested. We can then chat on IM(yahoo?), share more info, pics and go from there.
Hope to hear from you.
cheers!
"A"
Interesting...
If you feel horny and want to skype...let me know
With yr permission, Id love to sit you on my LAP, and play in your hair, until you melt ALL OVER like butter..... And when you do, lay uoi DOWN and sloooooowly taste your STRAWBERRY....
GIO~
So do you like bi-men?
hello my name is "X" male in "Y" nh u sound so awsome id love to just talk and get to know u
Here are a few more winners
My profile says I am not looking for casual hookups. And I get that "can your gf join us?" all the time.
...zzzzzz...
And then there are the guys who just send a "wink" with no message.
Sorry Mags....I am one of those guys. I figure that if I send a wink, it will prompt the woman to look at my profile...if she likes what she see's, she can wink back, and THEN I'll start a dialogue.And then there are the guys who just send a "wink" with no message.
Neon, It was long touted that it was "just as difficult for a woman to get a date", on one of these dating sites, as it was for a man. This is (obviously) not true. Men have a MUCH harder time getting women to even LOOK at their profiles, let alone getting women to CONTACT them....or even RESPOND to them, when the man initiates the contact.So much for the theory that women have such an easier time finding partners than men do. Sure, we probably get hit on and have more OPPORTUNITIES to GET LAID with less effort; but look at what we're dealing with here. Of course, I guess some men would like it if they received messages such as, "Hi I'm a 28-year-old married Brazilian woman who wants to try anal sex with a man in his 40's or 50's. Let's Skype and exchange nudie photos, tee-hee!" That would be considered a "successful" foray into the world of online dating, no?