Hi! It is great to hear back from you. To answer your question, let me explain the situation. Jane had a stroke over two years ago. She is limited in many things that she can do, like she has balance problems, problems with using her right arm, and some speech issues. She will never work again. One result was that sex is pretty well non existant. She might feel like it, or at least want it, every few months. So obviously,. she is not part of what I am doing. I think she suspects it, but she does not bring it up. I am simply seeking what I miss so much in our relationship - sex. I am looking for a couple, woman, or group, for a "fun, friendly" sexual/intimate relationship. One where there is no jealousies, no judgements, no baggage! Just a healthy friendly, sexual relationship, where we can talk about anything and everything, and ejoy being with each other even if the clothes are on. Russ